The world has takers and givers; the moment you decide to be a taker, you will always be in want, scarcity, and on a downward spiral. Givers are always watered and never wither even in the dry season. Dr. Lucas D. Shallua
When you approach relationships by thinking about giving rather than getting, and about adding value before seeking value, youll be amazed at the return you see on your investment. Mark Goulston
Women are, in my view, natural peacemakers. As givers and nurturers of life, through their focus on human relationships and their engagement with the demanding work of raising children and protecting family life, they develop a deep sense of empathy that cuts through to underlying human realities. Daisaku Ikeda
Takers believe in a zero-sum world, and they end up creating one where bosses, colleagues, and clients don’t trust them. Givers build deeper and broader relationships people are rooting for them instead of gunning for them. Adam Grant Positive Givers and Takers Quotes
The more I help out, the more successful I become. But I measure success in what it has done for the people around me. That is the real accolade. Adam Grant
I had to put up boundaries for emotional self-defense. There comes a time when Givers must protect themselves because Takers have no interest in protecting you. Steve Maraboli Positive Givers and Takers Quotes
People tend to have one of threestyles’ of interaction. There are takers, who are always trying to serve themselves; matchers, who are always trying to get equal benefit for themselves and others; and givers, who are always trying to help people. Adam Grant
Eve means ‘giver of life.’ I don’t think this redemptive calling to be a life giver is only biological. The life of Christ in us enables women to be life-givers, rather than life-takers, in every relationship, circumstance, and season of life. Gloria Furman
So if givers are most likely to land at the bottom of the success ladder, who’s at the top – takers or matchers? Neither. When I took another look at the data, I discovered a surprising pattern: It’s the givers again. Adam M. Grant
As my dad said, you have an obligation to leave the world better than how you found it. And he also reminded us to be givers in this life and not takers. Phil Crane
There are givers and takers in this world. I’m a giver, always have been. I know the givers have to set the limits, because the takers have none. Willow Winters
Apart from being motivation for themselves, I think big givers should also talk about their philanthropy so that their work and their success stories prove inspirational enough for many others to follow. Rakesh Jhunjhunwala
We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give. Winston Churchill
The Art of Reciprocity: How Positive Takers Can Also Be Givers
In the realm of human interaction, reciprocity plays a significant role in nurturing healthy relationships and fostering a sense of community. Often, the term “taker” is associated with negative connotations, implying selfishness and a lack of generosity. However, there is an art to reciprocity that allows individuals to be both positive takers and givers simultaneously.
Reciprocity is the notion that when we give, we often receive in return, creating a cycle of mutual benefit. It’s important to recognize that being a positive taker doesn’t necessarily mean being selfish or opportunistic. Instead, it’s about understanding how to receive in a way that benefits not only ourselves but also the giver.
Here are some key principles to master the art of reciprocity and become a positive taker while still being a giver:
Express Gratitude: When you receive something, whether it’s a gift, a favor, or support, express genuine gratitude. This acknowledgment not only shows your appreciation but also encourages the giver to continue their generosity.
Give Back in Different Ways: Being a positive taker means giving back to others, not necessarily in the same way or at the same time. You may not be able to repay a favor directly, but you can contribute positively to someone else’s life.
Be Mindful of Timing: Sometimes, it’s essential to recognize when it’s appropriate to receive help or support. Timing can make a significant difference in how your actions are perceived. Be sensitive to the needs and boundaries of others.
Pay It Forward: One of the most beautiful aspects of reciprocity is the ripple effect. When you’ve been a positive taker, consider paying it forward by helping someone else in need. This perpetuates a cycle of generosity.
Communicate Your Intentions: Transparency is key to maintaining trust in any relationship. If you find yourself in a position where you need to receive, communicate your intentions honestly. Let the giver know how you plan to give back or pay it forward.
Learn from Negative Experiences: Sometimes, we may unintentionally take more than we give, leading to strained relationships. Use these experiences as opportunities for growth and self-awareness, striving to strike a better balance in the future.
Practice Empathy: Understand the feelings and needs of others. Empathy allows you to be more attuned to when someone may need your support and reciprocation.
In essence, the art of reciprocity revolves around being mindful, appreciative, and considerate in your interactions with others. It’s about creating a harmonious exchange where both parties benefit, fostering a positive and giving atmosphere.
So, while the concept of being a “taker” may carry negative connotations, when approached with a mindset of reciprocity, it can be transformed into a positive force for good. Embrace the art of reciprocity, and you’ll find that being a positive taker can indeed coexist with being a generous giver, enriching your relationships and your life.